There comes
a time in our lives where we have to make the decision to keep things as they
are or to make them better for ourselves. As individuals we have the freedom
and ability to choose, for ourselves, what we want in our lives. When we all
come to this impasse in our lives it takes time, real determination, and
strength to make the decision to do what is best for your future and your
happiness. Sometimes, the wild, wonderful passion that we feel in our hearts
towards something or someone is not worth the pain, suffering and potential
long term affects that one thing could have on us. This is the struggle. It is
hard to abandon things that we feel have molded a part of our lives for fear of
losing everything that we are. But, then the question becomes, is everything
that we are because of this one thing what we want to be forever? Or is there something
better for you and who you are? The fear of the unknown holds us back in life. It
is so easy to fall into what is comfortable and not challenge ourselves and the
people around us. Once you find that you are worth it; that you deserve
respect, love, kindness, freedom from your past, from all the pain you have
endured, you will then be able to feel alive. You will see that you are someone
with passion for life and things that are important to you. And only at this
point will you act on them. So be the wildflower, stand out in the crowd and don’t
be afraid to dance J